MMC Memorial Site


Joseph Sisolak

When there was a problem in the e-mail system at Marsh & McClennan in the World Trade Center, someone would call Joseph Sisolak at home in Cobble Hill, Brooklyn, no matter what the hour. Mr. Sisolak, a 35-year-old senior vice president in charge of the e-mail system, would listen but would not hand out an answer. He would tell the caller to think the problem through, a technique that colleagues said made them better at their jobs.

"He just wanted to do the best he could," said his wife, Suzanne. "I think that’s why golf appealed to him so much. You had to keep score."

Husband and wife took up golf three years ago, and last summer they played every weekend. Last spring, he joined 20 other men on an annual golf outing to Myrtle Beach, S.C. He was the newcomer, and he brought his enthusiasm to the game. When he parred a hole, he would dance around. He was so excited that he asked to return. Now next spring’s getaway has a name: the Joseph Sisolak Memorial Outing.

Copyright (c) 2001 by The New York Times Co. Reprinted by permission.



 

  
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I never had a chance to meet Joe as a grown man, but I remember him fondly as a teenager in upstate NY. He would occasionally hike from his Mom's house to our's on 38B to goof off with my brother David, playing basketball. I remember him from band, from church, and from riding the same school bus for years. And even though I hadn't seen him in 20 years, man, Joe, I would have recognized you anywhere!

Someone else mentioned Joe blushing - I totally remember that and in fact, when I picture him in my head, that's what I see - a blushing, grinning teenager. He had the most marvelous sparkling eyes and a sheepish grin. And a great sense of timing with the quietly spoken, hilarious verbal aside. To read such glowing remembrances from his colleagues does not surprise me at all.

I think of Joe and his wife, Suzanne, often. And pray for his Mom and step dad, his father and family, his brother and Yvonne and kids... Such a lovely guy. Joe, I'm sure, lived his life to the fullest. Even those whose lives he touched so long ago still feel his spirit.

Karen Black Tuzza, 9/11/2007 9:50:23 PM
Joe Sisolak is my Nephew. His Mother is my Sister. Joe is one of the finest men I've ever known. He was, and still is, an important part of my life. I have loving memories of Christmas dinners with him and all our family. Once, after we had not seen each other in a few years, he remarked, "This family thing is really great Uncle Mike. Even though it's been years, it's like we never missed a beat." I believe our next reunion will be like that too.

The other contributers have said it well. Joe is a caring, loving, and very real human being. He is intelligent with a great sense of humor. Besides that, he worked and achieved much in his life here on earth. I wonder what God has him doing now. Good stuff for which he's well-suited, I'm sure.

I love you Joe. I miss you something awful. Some days, like today, I just cry wishing I could give you a hug and hear your voice. That's the effect you have on me, and others too. There's the testimony of what a great guy you are.

At home there's a special place in my living room with your picture, and a piece of the World Trade Center steel in my office at work. And when family talk, you are fondly remembered. Until we meet again, that will have to do.

Uncle Mike Suflita, or UMS as you used to refer to me in your emails.

Michael Joseph Suflita, 1/17/2007 7:59:19 PM
my friend joe knew him and that ok i wish an always wish 911 never happened ill never will forget my friends in the usa and the usa is close in my heart ever since i was young
john hutchison, 7/2/2006 9:28:06 PM
Joe,

Things have not been the same since that day you were taken away from us. We constantly reflect on how you were as a manager, and laugh about the good times we had as a team. You were not only my boss, but one of my mentors, and for that you will always hold a special place in my heart. Not many people in the office were priviledged to know the side of you that made people love and respect you, so I consider myself blessed. I know you are aware of how often your name is called, not only at work, but all around, don't be embarrassed by it, just know that you were loved and missed dearly. Hopefully you're watching over all of us, and lend a hand in guiding us.

Ordia Bryan, 11/11/2004 5:05:47 PM
Dear Joe,

Your 20th High School reunion just took place in Endwell NY. Many of your classmates, including myself, learned of your loss the night of the reunion. We are saddened and will pray for those left behind. Your picture was displayed for us to reflect and remember. You were a friendly, positive, intelligent and well liked boy. I'll remember your happy face and laugh. It looks like you turned into a successful, well-liked intelligent Man. For that, the M-E High 1984 class is Proud! We are sadden that you are gone, but You will not be forgotten! We will Honor you with our support of the Coventry House.

With Love, Your Classmates

Anynomous, 8/1/2004 5:47:25 PM
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