MMC Memorial Site


Jean DePalma

Family Tribute:

Jean was quite an accomplished woman. Certainly among her greatest achievements are her son and daughter, Drew and Jamie.

Jean was the first of five children and indeed a born leader in every way - - both in business and from a personal perspective.

Our sister was smart, successful, articulate, well read, and worldly. She knew a little bit about everything. You could always call Jean, ask her a question, and most probably she had the answer or knew where to find it.

In 1980, Jean completed college and started her career at an international accounting firm. Throughout her career with that firm, she worked diligently and on January 1,1993, she became a partner. Most recently, Jean had accepted an offer as Vice President of the C.A.P.S. Division at Marsh & McLennan Companies.

Described by her co-workers as dedicated and driven, she was often referred to as “the person who could get the job done.” If there was a difficult project to be completed within a short deadline - - Jean would tackle the job. Jean handled each assignment with skill and precision while balancing the demands of a career and motherhood.

On a personal level, Jean’s organizational skills couldn’t be beat. Whenever there was a special occasion, a milestone birthday, or a significant anniversary - - Jean was the first to organize a gathering or to think of an idea for the kind of present we should consider buying. She had a tender heart and was generous with her time as well as her resources. If one of us was unable to contribute as much as the others, Jean always put in the rest. She never forgot an important date in our lives and always sent a card for a special occasion.

But most of all she had a lively spirit, and it was always easy to bring a smile to her face even when life was less than perfect. This past summer, when she was somewhat upset because her car had been stolen, the stock market took a dive, and there was a great possibility she might have to leave on extended travel for work. Jean sent her sister Michele a lengthy e-mail to which the reply was a two-line response. Within minutes Michele’s phone rang and a huge roar of laughter came from the other end - - they laughed so hard that day - - they cried.

Michele was able to spend some time with Jean just two days before the tragic event. In fact, they did some of the things that they both loved - - running along the river, taking in a ballet, and lying in bed eating ice cream while watching a Madonna concert.

Recently, Jean’s long time friend and old co-worker, Toni, told a very touching and beautiful story. Toni said that early in their careers, they traveled together on a business trip. Jean had not been on a plane since she was much younger and this was her first flight as an adult. As the plane ascended into the air, there was a trail of puffy clouds climbing upwards. Jean turned to Toni and said, “Look, Toni - - a stairway to heaven.”

On the morning of September 11 at 8:45 a.m. as Jean sat working at her desk, the sky was blue and the sun was shining - - surely there was a trail of puffy clouds and a stairway to heaven awaiting her on that day.



 

  
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Jean and I were "soccer moms" together as Drew and my son Timmy (now 25) played on traveling teams together. We had some really great conversation and were of a similar independent and driven style. The last time I saw her was at a nail salon. What a great time we had reminiscing and laughing at our present life status. She had some really creative language that day and when I went home, my sides hurt from laughing, but I was also concerned for all she had experienced in her personal life. She was amazing and had moved in a new direction with strength and grace. What a beautiful, beautiful woman. We think of her often and most especially on this day each year. I loved the "Stairway to Heaven" reference and find solace knowing that she is taking charge up there and most likely making it a more spirited, more humorous place by her presence. I like to think that the hand of God reached down for her and away she went. To Drew and Jamie: As a mom of two myself, I am sure you know but I just want to say again that you two were her very life. She was so proud and filled with such a deep love as we moms know. When you become parents one day...you will experience truly the depth of love she had for you both. We will continue to remember her and wish you only peace and happiness in the future.

The Kitchells

Tim, Patti, Timmy and Collin

patti kitchell, 9/11/2008 12:49:31 PM
My Aunt Jean was an amazing person!! I love and miss her very much!!!
Marisa, 10/14/2007 5:41:23 PM
i had the pleasure of meeting jean at a time in my life when she was a blessing to me...and i hope i was a help to her too...what a great person...i miss my friend a lot...goodbye snowbunny
john mayer, 1/8/2004 1:09:20 AM
I couldn't believe it when I saw Jean's name in the paper as a victim of that hideous day. Jean and I were both Partners at Campos & Stratis, she in New Jersey and me in Chicago. But I'll never forget all the great times we had during our firm's national seminars and partner's meetings. She was a real sweetheart and I think about her often. We even shared a dance once. She'll never be forgotten. See you in the future!
Mark Leisen, 1/21/2003 11:30:48 AM
I wear Jean's name around my wrist this week, on a band provided by my church, All Saints Episcopal in Pasadena, California. This morning, at 5:45am, we opened the church to all who wanted to come in and pray for those who died, for our country, and for peace and reconciliation in the world. Names of every victim were read aloud and projected on a large screen above the altar, while candles were lit in tribute, filling the steps below. I lit a candle for Jean.

Before going to church, I attended a service across the street in front of Pasadena City Hall. A procession led by police and fire personnel led hundreds to the steps, where the Pasadena POPS Orchestra and Occidental College Foothill Master Chorale performed Mozart's requiem. Afterwards, two trumpeters played taps, then the crowd left quietly, immersed in their own reflections. It was a beautiful day and a moving remembrance.

Jean, I don't know you or your family or your friends. But today I look at your face on this web site, read about you, and honor your memory. You are more than just a name on a list, and today I pray for your eternal peace and for comfort and grace for those who continue to grieve for your loss.

With respect,

Karen Germaine

Mom to Jackson, age 8

Karen Germaine, 9/11/2002 2:54:04 PM
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