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Sept. 11 about humanity, not political agendas
I never met David Suarez, but I miss him.
He had aspirations of going to Harvard. He worked in a soup kitchen and for the group New York Cares. And he never turned away someone in need.
One time, he walked out of a bar and met a man begging in a wheelchair.
“What can I do to make you happy?” David asked.
“Give me $20,” the man replied.
David did. The man stood up, folded up his wheelchair and walked away.
David didn’t yell or go after the man.
“I’d rather lose $20 here or there to an impostor than burn someone in need,” David said.
David also worked as a consultant. He had a job he was supposed to finish Sept. 14, 2001, at the World Trade Center. That job was never completed.
Now David is among those in a book called Portraits: 9/11/01, a set of biographies of people who died September 11, 2001, compiled by the New York Times.
His story and the thousands of others in the book were read out loud by volunteers Sept. 11, 2004, near the site where the Twin Towers stood.
When I visited New York City Sept. 9 through 12, I didnt know what to expect. The words September 11 were barely uttered my first two days in the city. I worried when I went to Ground Zero Saturday that it would be a battleground of war propaganda and presidential election fodder.
Sadly, that worry was realized. A truck laden with hateful remarks toward terrorists with a fake bomb strapped to the top saying it was for Osama sat parked about 20 feet from the site. And while a fire truck called the freedom truck drove around projecting speeches about hope and caring for all people, a group stood nearby chanting “Four more years! Four more years!”
I found, though, as I walked around the site that these agendas were not the predominate sentiment of the day. Most people realized this was not a day that could be labeled as pro-Bush or pro-Kerry or even anti- or pro-war. It was a day to remember and honor — a day of humanity, not political agendas. A day where people lit candles to honor loved ones and a man played “Amazing Grace” on his flute, while leaning on a fence full of names of those lost.
A day to honor Brian Warner, whom his friends and family called Inspector Gadget because of his willingness to go and fix just about anything for others.
And Vanessa Wen, who grew up in Taiwan and had to be into work early the day of the attacks because she had to make up extra work because of layoffs in the company.
And, of course, David.
I was given the privilege to meet a man who knew David. Father John Fanning approached the readers and asked that they go back and read David’s story while he was there. I sat and watched him smile as he held the arm of a woman he met that day. She cried as the two stood in front of the empty space in the city landscape.
One could say the attack on the Twin Towers was one against great Americans like David and the values of this country. But whatever the motives, the bottom line is the world lost a great human being.
Those who died were humans first, Americans second. These were crimes against humanity, not just America. The world was hurt the day it lost David and the countless others like him.
As a man on the freedom truck said into a megaphone over the crowd, “When you decide to love the world in your heart, you become a hero, too.”
I’m sure David would agree.
I often wonder why the events of 9/11 ever took place. Why David? Why any of the others? Why the pain? Why the suffering? For these questions I have no answers and perhaps never will in this life.
One thing I do know. David lived. In so doing he touched all of us and we in turn touched him. In those moments as it were, an energy was exchanged, a memory formed and idea conceived, a spark flashed and for one instant the darkness was dispelled.
Is that not what life is about? We the living who capture what was and is, and pass it on to others also in the process of becoming. Many have commented on David’s smile, his warmth his sincerity his ability to help others feel good, his bias for action. These qualities were real but they are also reflections of those same qualities and abilities that are present in us.
Let us learn what we can from what we saw in him so that we too can touch others with that spark of light that dispels the darkness. Perhaps then we will not need to know the answers as to why 9/11? Why the pain? Why the suffering? We who are free to choose will have overcome, and in so doing, David and all those who came before us continue to live on in us.
Ted Suarez
Father of David S Suarez
WTC1 floor 99
One day a life was formed
Formed from love
Formed to live
The life was lived
The warmth of love felt and given
The love of life experienced
Doing, being, touching
Excellence, strength of body and soul
A life of fun
Tears, laughter
Rain, Sun
Motion, stillness
A life that ran with the wind
That climbed the mountains
One that focused both on today and eternity
To have tried and surrendered having no regrets
To become one with God
A Life Well Lived
© Ted Suarez
Father of David Suarez, WTC 1 floor 99
David W. Suarez
Ohio